Majority of the membership of ShadowXTwilight are from me, FerrumFlos1st
, giving out invitations. A few voluntarily joins.
I brought up memberships because it feels like we're not getting much compared to other shipping groups. At least about one person or two joins on a monthly basis.
When I look at MordeTwi
, a group of one of Twilight's many ships, I see that their memberships are always growing. I mean look at the statistics! They have 16x times more members than ShadowXTwilight. How did they get this many?! I've asked in the past and they said they give out invitations to anyone interested.
I have been thinking. Should do the same for ShadowXTwilight, where I give out invites to whomever? It would be nice, but at the same time I feel like it's an invasion of privacy to the other person in dA.
Though truth be told, when I do give invites and the other person declines, I get depressed. Really depressed; and apparently I get sad very easily. And I've been hesitant to give out another invite to avoid this feeling.
But shouldn't I have overcome this feeling by now? I would. I simply didn't want to inconveniently go through another depressing episode over one person declining an invite.